Homily 2nd Sunday Ordinary Time Cycle C January 20, 2019

The family dynamics in today’s Gospel are quite apparent. If there ever was a Gospel story on any given Sunday, or any weekday for that matter, that reveals the popular thought that men are from Mars and women are from Venus, this is number one on that list. The Wedding at Cana. The wine is running low, because the couple invited a bunch of guests who took their wine consumption very seriously. Free wine for everyone! “We can’t wait for that wedding in Cana, but we really can’t wait to indulge in the free wine,” is what the wedding attendants thought. “This is going to be a fun three days.” Except the pace of consuming the obviously delicious wine was that of a NASCAR Race. They hit the 200 MPH mark in their imbibing early in the wedding celebration, and ran out of gas – aka wine – earlier than expected. They needed more gas (wine) to finish this drinking race, but the contents were all consumed. (Are we sure the Wedding at Cana didn’t take place at a pub in Ireland?) Fortunately, the family invited to the wedding Venus, also known as Mary, the mother of Jesus. As mothers do, they become very concerned when some part of an important event is about to collapse, such as no wine for the world’s best wine-drinkers. A horror to someone like Mary, whose love and concern for all things good and proper is apparent. So, Venus turns to Mars, also known as Jesus, because she knows in her heart that he is, as she heard years ago, the cause for the rise and fall of many in Israel, which includes Cana. Mary does not want this Hebrew wedding to fall before it gets off the ground. So Venus says to Mars, “They have no wine.” Jesus gives the perfect Mars response; “Woman, how does that affect me? My hour has not yet come.” It seems like Jesus is saying – although this is really not what he’s saying, “How can those wedding people be so dumb and let the wine run out so soon?” What he’s really saying to his mother is, “The time for my great purpose – crucifixion – has not yet arrived. But since we have a lesser purpose before us here in Cana, let’s take care of it.” So, Mary, aka Venus, gives the attendants, and in fact the entire human race, her own commandment, “Do whatever he tells you.” Rightfully, we center our faith on the commandments of Christ. The right, healthy, and moral living; the Godly values; the personal respect and how to address any wine running low in our lives, brands of wine such as mercy; compassion; caring for the poor, the sick, and the elderly; loving neighbor and enemy, and so many other brands of wine commandments that Jesus teaches us. We rightfully center our lives on his shelf of various wines that bring peace, confidence in his way, and hope that no one else can offer for our good consuming. Even the brand of wine known as a Cross at times. However, this one commandment – this particular brand of wine – that Mary creates through the grace of her Son, is so necessary for our spiritual well-being. In her Venus role, her motherly, caring, wanting all things to be right and happy role, she speaks a “commandment of reminder” for the good of our faith journey; “Do whatever he tells you.” She’s not the voice of the Master Teacher. But she is the voice of one who knows him best, and better than we ever will. Venus has spoken, and Mars is going to do something about it. Jesus does not laugh off Mary’s intercession. He does not lack concern for the imbibing situation developing in his presence. He does not say, “Take care of it yourself.” He does not leave them in a position of asking, “What do we do next?” He takes control. But his control is not the typical macho man form of Mars; his “control,” if you will, is centered in love. This is where his form of being Mars is so radically different from guys like Herod and Pilate, like the Chief Priests and Pharisees, the crazy ones who use power to destroy others, or those who are so consumed with power, they will protect it to the point of crucifying an innocent man, when his hour does arrive. They make the lives of other people miserable. They set themselves up as false gods in the presence of the one true God. The brand of wine that Christ delivers is a brand that solves problems; a brand that walks with us with understanding and empathy; a brand that draws close to us in the way he drew close to the 2 disciples on the Road to Emmaus after his resurrection. His wine not only fixes the potential collapse of a marital relationship that he should be the center of, but his brand of wine addresses the greatest threat of all, original sin. His brand of wine is called justification, meaning we are now capable, through his hour and his power, to love him and neighbor. Herod and Pilate care nothing about this brand of wine. When they drink this sort of wine, they spit it back out. They hate the taste of it, as do all the Herod’s and Pilate’s in power today in our own country and throughout the world. We worship Christ because he gives us the good wine to drink. The best tasting wine for the human person, for the family, for our culture, for peace in our world, and for eternal life. Any wine you encounter that is outside of Christ, reject it! Listen to Venus; listen to Mary; “Do whatever he tells you.” He’s the only wine we need, aside of the Voice of Mary reminding us of who we listen to.

Homily The Baptism of the Lord Cycle C January 13, 2019

As opposed to Good Friday, a curious name considering the events and circumstances, a day when God wept watching his beloved Son dying so painfully and brutally, today’s reaction is the polar opposite; “You are my beloved Son, with you I am well pleased.” So many times we hear so many folks stressing God’s anger, righteous anger where anger is present, for God is always in the right. We’re rightfully concerned about judgment, a part of our faith never to be taken lightly, asking at times, “How can a merciful, loving God send anyone to Hades? Or Hell?” The answer, of course, is that people can choose it. God makes the righteous judgment according to our free will. But, as the Church teaches with great wisdom, we’ve never declared any soul to be in hell (some of us may have made that decision about someone, but not the Church), which is different from saying that no souls are in hell. The truth is we don’t know. What we do know we declare; the joyful declaration that makes God pleased with a big smile, the Communion of Saints. The Saints in light, as St. Paul names them. The Baptism of Jesus in the Jordan by John is a day that draws our full attention to God who is pleased. What is it with Jesus’ Baptism by the Baptist that moves God to speak from heaven, speaking words that make clear that the Creator of the stars is filled with infinite joy? What does Jesus do here that causes the 1st Person of the Trinity to notice with pleasure what the 2nd Person of the Trinity is doing? The first answer to these inquiring questions is Jesus proclaiming himself, on the banks of the Jordan, to be a humble servant. Most parents know that title well, being humble servants to their children, while trying to remain in charge until the teenage years roll around. When we consider who Jesus is, and then consider further that he allowed John the Baptist to baptize him, it’s pretty startling that it all went down the way it did. John says elsewhere, “You should be baptizing me.” That’s correct, John. John understood who was before him. He never forgot that joyful leap in his mother’s womb when the two pregnant mothers came together. And here we are, 30 years later, and instead of John’s legs leaping for joy, now his voice is leaping for joy; “I am not worthy to loosen the thongs of his sandals.” How good life is for us when we make the same daily choice to allow our voices to leap for joy in Christ. The servitude of Jesus, being a servant for his Father first, a servant who is obedient to all that God seeks from him, is at the heart of Jesus’ baptism. In our Catholic faith, we teach this very principle in the context of Christian marriage. One spouse is not meant to be the slave of the other spouse. Christian marriage is mutual servitude. Sorry if I ruined the day for some of you men, and a few of you women. God shows no partiality, except when the Patriots win today. Christ is humble servant in his Baptism. A Christian who is a humble servant accomplishes more good for God than an arrogant person who thinks the world should wait on them. A second truth that emerges from Jesus’ Baptism is one of power. How many of us who were baptized as infants would love to be at the center of an earth-shattering experience of God’s power overpowering us? That thought scares many people. What would it result in? How would such divine power change us? Would I be changed on the level of a St. Paul, who went from persecutor to preacher? Would you be a different person? No. We would be the same person, but in different ways. Ways that served the will of God, wiping out all selfish desires, and using the power of love God has naturally planted in our hearts. That earth-shattering moment is going to happen to us in the resurrection of our bodies. But how about before we die from this world? The Baptism of Jesus results in the Spirit descending upon the Lord in the form of a dove. The Spirit is power. Power for all that is good in God’s eyes. We know that Christ is fully human and fully divine, but the Baptism and what follows, by all appearances, thrusts upon Jesus even more Godly power. It’s from this point in his life that we begin to read about the mega-healings, raising people from the dead (“Hold on Lazarus, I’m coming!”), calling out demons, alongside the greatest power of God found at the heart of Baptism, the forgiveness of sins. We are in need of continually reminding ourselves that our Baptism in our younger years was a moment of great power. And, for many of us, that Christian power has been elevated in the reception of Confirmation… The fire and the dove descending upon us through the office of Bishop. May we gently remind ourselves, especially in trying moments, that the power received at Baptism has not been done away with. Such power received does not grow old. It has not died or been traded to another team. May we, like Christ, use the power that flows from our Baptism and Confirmation well, being humble servants. So that we too may grab the Father’s attention with his words, “You are my beloved son and daughter; with you I am well pleased.”

Homily Feast of the Epiphany Cycle C January 6, 2019

After they departed from their country by another way, Herod came to find out about it, realized he was deceived by Three Wise Guys, went crazy, tried to have the child killed, instead the murderous deed was upon the other children in Bethlehem, and thought he was successful. He wasn’t. So much for doing homage to the newborn King. The Epiphany is far less about the crazy, out of your mind antics of Herod, and far more about Magi who travel through the desert with eagerness and love in their hearts. This is who we are as Christians who come here each week to do him homage, after traveling wherever this past week, and preparing to travel an upcoming week through the desert of this world, arriving here and leaving from here with hope and desire, I pray, as we do homage to Christ the Lord in word and Sacrament. The comparison couldn’t be more stark between Herod and the Magi, a starkness that deeply touches the entirety of our lives in personal ways. Herod is the image of concupiscence, that bad word that recognizes our potential to lose it, our potential to sin even after receiving the grace of Baptism and Confirmation. Whereas the flip side, the Magi are the image of carrying within our hearts the anticipation and deep joy of seeing Christ, here in word and Sacrament, experiencing his presence through the Spirit’s power. And then, as the Magi do, seeing Christ face-to-face at the end of our years. Today’s Gospel of the Epiphany of the Lord is so rich in symbolism, both for the good of our lives and the not so good. The Magi are the forerunners for all of us gathered here. They’re the exceptional example for all of us of Gentile stock who come to give thanks to God for opening up the way of salvation for this side group of people, not part of the original chosen people, a branch that has been grafted onto the tree of life, who can now travel the distance of our lives, and enter, at our final destination, the holy presence of him who is Christ. The Three Wise Men who covered the expanse of the desert with their food and water, under extreme conditions, conditions that mirror the major difficulties of our own lives, they set the pace and opened the door for us to go to a place that we Gentiles had never gone before. We all have much to be thankful for in our lives as we begin this New Year, but today we stop and take a moment to thank Balthasar, Melchior, and Gaspar for leading us to the greatest place on earth; before him who is Lord. The Magi are much like Jackie Robinson, the first African-American baseball player in the major leagues, breaking the color barrier in that sport. He opened a door where thousands of others have followed. But he was the one brave enough to enter the desert, cross the desert during some very strong storms, and stay on the other side of the desert to break the color barrier in a major American sport. And his number “42” now hangs in every major league ballpark. The Magi broke the barrier of who now stands before God justified by our faith. They took some of Abraham’s spirit of faith, crossed the desert with it, and brought it before the real King. How can we not thank them? They set the pace, opened the door, and made possible through the favor of God the reality of spending eternal life with family and friends, and loving and doing good to each other in this desert crossing right now. As the Magi covered the expanse of the desert back then, how many times did they need to help out each other? How many times, in the name of friendship, did they pick up each other? How many small acts of love did they perform toward each other as they dealt with all the travails of a desert crossing on both a personal and communal level? By the time they arrived before Jesus and did him homage, their hearts were prepared for that holy encounter by way of caring for each other during the difficulties of a certain desert crossing. It was the treacherous times and coming together to care for each other during trying moments that fully prepared them to come face-to-face with Jesus. All the previous actions of love is what allowed them to recognize Him in the stable. That’s our fundamental calling as Christians who live our faith, and not keep it in a locked box, or strictly personal, as we like to say today. Before we come to see our Lord face-to-face, we prepare ourselves for that encounter that will surely happen – whether anyone believes it or not does not do away with the definite encounter – by way of continuous acts of love and concern for our brothers and sisters in the Lord, and those outside the Lord. The other choice is to be Herod, the evil choice, making it no choice for us. The Magi are the forerunners for us Gentiles to be able to offer acceptable homage to Jesus Christ. If that door was not opened for us, we’d be living in a world of squalor and concupiscence. The Magi opened for us the door of holiness, right worship of God and not inanimate things. They present to us the gift of understanding why love is the virtue to drive our lives, for it cancels a multitude of sins, and that love is the door that leads us to seeing our Lord face-to-face. Thank you, guys. You and Jackie Robinson did a great job. Pray for us that we continue to follow in your footsteps, leaving Herod behind, and coming before Jesus in true worship and grace.

Homily Solemnity of Mary, Mother of God January 1, 2019

The image of Blessed Mary that comes to us from these pages of Scripture is the image of a person of great calm and wisdom, one who takes the time to reflect upon all that is going on around her. Mary didn’t live in the fast-paced world that surrounds us on all sides today. We not only may drive 90 MPH at times (I’m sure you don’t do that!), but there’s also the real possibility of living at 90 MPH too. Just think about preparing for Christmas in whatever ways we prepared for Jesus’ birth; buying food, shopping for gifts, work, trying to fit a visit into our ramped-up schedules. Heaven forbid the funeral of a loved one should happen around Christmas-time. It’s good to stay busy, but it’s also good, if not better, to be calm and reflective like Mary. Mary, the Mother of God, is a feast that was drawn from the early Church Council of Ephesus in the year 431. The title Mother of God was a title that needed to be emphasized, and determined by the Church Fathers to be infallible, meaning divinely revealed. The reason for the emphasis being that some purported Christians were labeling Mary the mother of Jesus, and not the Mother of God. The mother of Jesus title emphasizes the humanity of Christ while not recognizing his divine nature. The Mother of God title points to both Jesus’ human and divine nature, being the truth of who he is. So, the title Mother of God was a title given to Mary in the 5th century, not because of her own actions, but because of who her Son is. All things Mary point to Jesus, and the whole truth of who her Son is, and not a partial truth. That’s the quick theology behind the title Mother of God. But from a spiritual angle, an angle that serves us in our religious lives, Mary as Mother of God is a title that exudes the image of calm and wisdom. The image of taking the time to be reflective concerning all the things that were being spoken about her Son. Granted, Mary was in a stable and had just given birth, and probably didn’t feel like getting up and doing some jumping jacks, or walking south to Egypt. She was resting in the manger, which is what mothers try to do after giving birth. So, she wasn’t going anywhere soon. But Mary as Mother of the Most High was not forced into the calm and wisdom we see on display in this holy scene. She wasn’t forced into reflecting on all that was said about her Son. They were choices Mary made in the moment. And the Mary, Mother of God title is the most proper title that is consistent with the visitation of the shepherds. Because the shepherds made known the message that had been told them about this child. The message, spoken by an angel from heaven, passed on to Mary by the shepherds that said, “For today in the city of David a savior has been born for you who is Christ and Lord.” Christ meaning Messiah, Lord meaning God. The title Mother of God is the most proper title for Mary. It fits perfectly into this scene of Jesus’ birth, revealing his human and divine natures. Mother of God is a title to rejoice in. But, we also rejoice in something that speaks to us; that in the midst of some amazing events, Mary remained calm, possessing the great virtue of wisdom, taking time to reflect upon the events of her life. This is how we too get in touch with the Lord, draw close to him, and remain his handmaid, in likeness of the Mother of God.

Homily Feast of the Holy Family Cycle C December 30, 2018

In today’s opening prayer for the Mass of the Holy Family, we heard the words, “Graciously grant that we may imitate them (the Holy Family) in practicing the virtues of family life and in the bonds of charity (love). What are the virtues to be practiced by Christian families imitating the Holy Family? Virtues, I pray, we practiced over the celebration of Christmas? We heard some of those virtues in Paul’s Letter to the Colossians; “Put on, as God’s chosen ones, heartfelt compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness and patience, bearing with one another, forgiving one another if there’s a grievance against one another. And over all these put on love, the bond of perfection.” That’s quite a list of family virtues that St. Paul so eloquently provides for right Christian living, imitating the Holy Family. And when we consider the likes of Jesus, Mary, and Joseph, we can see how those virtues that came down from heaven most notably displayed in the Person of the newborn child, we can understand how it’s possible to succeed at applying them in our own lives. If, that is, we seek to imitate the Holy Family in practicing the virtues of family life. When considering the three main characters in today’s Gospel, a 12-year-old boy and his parents, with those three, we can all agree that the list of St. Paul’s virtues are possible…for them. Are they possible for us? It’s not hard for to us to picture Jesus, Mary and Joseph experiencing heartfelt compassion toward each other. Or being kind, humble and gentle toward each other. Those virtues fit perfectly into our Catholic image of all three of them. Being patient and bearing with one another, especially when it appears a 12-year-old boy was left behind, never catching up with the caravan heading back to Nazareth after the Passover celebration. There was a damper placed on the joyful celebration of Passover when the parents figured out their firstborn son and only child was not with them when the caravan had traveled miles up the road toward the insignificant village of Nazareth. The absence of their son was anything but insignificant. It must have been an interesting conversation home after the parents discovered their Son teaching the teachers. A conversation that began with, “Son, why have you done this to us?” was likely finished somewhere on the road with kindness, gentleness, and patience, all grounded in the bond of perfection, love. This is why they are the Holy Family. Not because every day was a perfectly sunny day with roses in bloom, birds chirping away in the backyard, the temperature that of San Diego, and as holy as St. Juan Diego. I pray we do understand that the feast day today of the Holy Family is not the equivalent of celebrating a family that lived and experienced a world of perfection each day. That their home in Nazareth, or the entire village of Nazareth of about 200 people, was enclosed in this bubble of no issues, protected from a crooked world that never penetrated the holy bubble. It would be nice if we could live in that bubble, but that’s not an accurate picture of Nazareth or our own families. In today’s world, the created bubble would be similar to parents trying to protect their children as much as possible from all the ugliness we know is out there, or at their fingertips, in so many ways. You plant good seeds, you protect them and guide them, advise them in the ways of Christ, but do so knowing they will be out their one day, getting lost in the Temple. But hopefully making the choices you taught them. At some point, the created bubble will burst, praying they will choose, not to bury themselves in the sinful ways of our culture, build to up the Kingdom of God thanks to you parents and grandparents. Today’s joyful celebration of the Holy Family, in one sense, is a Lenten call, of all things. To imitate the Holy Family, which one of those virtues in the list of St. Paul is the one needed the most in our estimation, at this time? Which one is lacking the most? Is it forgiving? Is it kindness, rather than being unkind? How about being more gentle in the way Mary and Joseph were gentle with Jesus when they finally found him in the Temple after three very long days? By the way, Jesus wasn’t lost. He was completely at home in his Father’s house. His parents at this point could not fully comprehend his natural comfortability in the Temple, which is not a sin on their part. Or, do we need to practice more heartfelt compassion in the family circle, or, as in my family, the Family Circus? There’s a Lenten similarity to this Feast Day because during Lent one of the objectives is to work on our worst sin, but here on our most needed way of building family. Most families don’t hit that high plateau where virtues are practiced perfectly. It would be false to think we do. That’s like the person who comes to Confession and says, “I really don’t have any sins to confess; I just came by to say hello.” All of our families can imitate the Holy Family in deeper Christian ways, from that holy list of St. Paul because, and I put this in quotations, “we all have a 12-year-old lost in the Temple.” It might be 70-year-old Uncle George who hasn’t grown up yet. He still living his hippie days from Woodstock. We all have a 12-year-old seemingly lost in the Temple. The opening prayer beckons us to imitate the Holy Family. St. Paul provides a long list of virtues to apply. The Gospel provides the potential scenario for all our Christian families. Choose one from Paul’s list, and continue to build up God’s Kingdom in the nucleus of our families.

Homily Christmas Day, 2018

For Zion’s sake I will not be silent, for Jerusalem’s sake I will not be quiet.” These words of Isaiah from today’s first reading make me want to shout from the tops of the mountains so the whole world can hear, “He’s ready to reintroduce himself to each of us. He will do it a thousand times over our lifetime if needed. He’s persistent. He loves you. He cares for you, in good times and in bad. He tells you you shall be called by a new name, pronounced by the mouth of the Lord. You shall no longer be called “Forsaken” or “Desolate.” Those are names that belong to the enemy. The Devil is desolate; he has nothing good to offer you. Instead, you shall be called “My Delight,” my “Espoused,” for God has come to marry us. Not like a spouse as we understand it. But as our Creator who penetrates the deepest part of your soul, making a home within you, living within you, helping you carry your cross if you allow him.” Such beautiful words on Christmas from the major Prophet Isaiah. But do we really understand how close he is, and how close he wants to be? In my conversations, in my travels, in my observations, in my listening to people, I find much lukewarm faith that holds people back from their potential in Christ to unleash the deep love within them; love grounded in the Word becoming flesh; love that will raise their faith to the heights of heaven through actions of Christian faith on Earth. I pray in my lifetime I will witness the Great Awakening; a time where God will somehow in his way of doing things, will reawaken the faith of millions and millions of good people, and a few presently not so good people, to a place where their zeal for their Christian faith will shine forth like the stars in the sky, rather than remaining in the desolate, forsaken place that no God-fearing person should be. 9-11, as someone recently reminded me, filled the Churches for a weekend, a month maybe, for a short time, as good people searched for answers to national tragedy. My most recent funeral, a brave Worcester Firefighter, the most difficult event of my priesthood, it may lead a few on the department back to their faith and its practice. But will it stay? Will they marry their Lord? Will it hold, will they marry Christ, or will they live in the word “Forsaken?” The Great Awakening of the lukewarm that I pray for is not to come about, I pray, through tragic events. That obviously doesn’t have the sustaining power needed to permanently reawaken the faith of millions of people. The Awakening I pray for will come, I pray, strictly through the compassionate power of God’s love for us, where countless souls will recognize and embrace the essential importance in this one quick life of putting into practice the faith that God grants us through his grace. For it is only through his grace and favor that we arrive at “My Delight,” rather than wallowing in that awful set of words, “Forsaken” and ‘Desolate.” What does this have to do with Christmas? Everything. “Joseph, son of David, do not be afraid to take Mary your wife into your blessed home. For it is through the Holy Spirit that this child has been conceived in her.” Joseph, stay married Mary. Don’t divorce her. Stay married to Mary, Joseph, because you, my friends, are at the heart of this story of God coming to us so that we can love each other now, bring Good News to a world overcome with not-so-good news, and reach that great potential of faith within us, a faith that screams out, “God is alive within me. As alive as the child from Bethlehem.” Herod may try to kill our faith like he tried to kill Jesus. We live in a time that tries hard to kill our faith, and so many Catholics have allowed such killing to flow through our veins, effecting our souls. The living out and practice of our faith in this newborn child does away with all forsakenness and desolation. Joseph, stay married to Mary. Why should he? Because in Joseph’s marriage to Mary, we are wedded to Mary’s Son. We are “Espoused” to him! Joseph, you cannot leave Mary alone. She needs your help. She needs your protection from Herod. She needs your participation and love. She needs your companionship. She needs your friendship and holy advice. The completion and fulfillment in this Christmas story is bringing this family together as one. In their being one, we are now married to the Son of Mary, conceived by the Holy Spirit. Our marriage to him is realized most fundamentally in the sustained practice of our worship of him in the Body of Christ, his Church. A tough time it presently is for the Body of Christ, between those two dreaded realities; lukewarm and abuse. Forsaken and Desolate. But in the celebration of our Lord’s holy birth, in the oneness of his family, in the marriage of Joseph to Mary, we are known by God as “My Delight” and “Espoused.” May you live up to those words. “For Zion’s sake I will not be silent, for Jerusalem’s sake I will not be quiet.” We’re married to Him, and it’s a beautiful thing. Merry Christmas.


Our Mass schedule for Christmas is as follows: Christmas Eve Mass, Monday, December 24, will be held at 4:00 p.m., and Christmas Day Mass, Tuesday, December 25 will be at 9:00 a.m. A merry Christmas to all as we celebrate “And the word became flesh.”

Free Advent Concert December 2

Immaculate Conception will be holding a free Advent concert on Sunday afternoon, December 2 at 2:00 p.m. in the Church. This concert will feature soloists Jane Shivick and Bridget Klofft, accompanied by pianist Olga Rogach. This concert is open to the public.